Build your bar with the help of guests when you throw a “Stock the Bar” party! This fun type of event works for a housewarming party, wedding shower or 21st birthday celebration. It’s an easy way to ensure you have what you need to craft different drinks.
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Planning your “Stock the Bar” party
Whether you’re hosting a housewarming, a wedding shower or a 21st birthday party, a “Stock the Bar” party makes for a great party theme. It takes the guesswork out of giving gifts and helps you pack your bar with tried-and-true favorites from all your friends.
Most of the time, I find people plan these events for themselves, but sometimes it makes a great theme for a wedding shower that someone else throws for the guest(s) of honor. These events are usually evening or afternoon parties, but you could have a “stock the bar” party at any time of day.
Invitations & requests
Share all this info ahead of the party, preferably on or accompanying the invitations, so that your guests have plenty of time to shop!
- Decide if you want to be surprised or provide a list of requests. One thing about me is that I love a gift list. I request them from my loved ones at Christmas to ensure that everyone gets something they love and I am all about sticking to the registry for weddings, baby showers… You name it. There’s just something about having the guesswork taken out that I find so helpful! You could also share things you don’t want!
- Decide what you want! Usually everyone leans to bringing liquors but you could indicate that champagne, wine and beer are fine too. Bar tools and mixers would be easy additions that offer more variety for guests to choose from and ultimately contribute to a well-stocked bar.
- Provide guests with some parameters to help set the tone for your party. I’d recommend giving a budget, like “don’t spend over $25” to help everyone understand what to shop for. People should bring unopened new bottles. (You want nothing from the back of their liquor cabinet!)
“Stock the bar” parties are for non-drinkers too. Your “bar” doesn’t have to have alcohol! Ask people to bring zero-proof spirits and mixers so you can create delicious mocktails.
“Stock the Bar” party ideas
You can really make this party what you want it to be. If you prefer to keep it simple, give everyone a budget and go from there. If you want to provide additional guidance to guests or curate the results a bit more, you can do that too. Here are some ideas to get you started:
- Alphabet: Everyone brings something that starts with the first letter of their name, or draws a letter or section of the liquor store to shop for
- Faves: Provide a list of your favorites that guests can choose from, or have them pick one of your favorites out of a hat
- Theme: Ask everyone to stick to a theme like tropical ingredients, Christmas flavors or a spirit like tequilas or whiskeys
It never helps to offer some encouragement for what you want — leaving things too open-ended could have you receiving bottles of banana liqueur! (Ask me how I know.)
Setting up your space
When you hear the words “home bar,” you may picture a fully functioning wet bar that acts as the centerpiece for entertaining. While that would be nice, it’s certainly not required!
A bar can be almost anything, from a shelf to a bar cart * to a cooler to a corner of the countertop. It also doesn’t have to be permanent for this party. Find a spot that works for the duration, and you can set up your bar with your new goodies later!
What to serve at a “Stock the Bar” party
Everyone may be bringing booze, but mixers are a must! You can make your own, like margarita mix or bloody mary mix, or grab your favorites from the store. Then either plan to open what is gifted or have options to use that allow you to save the new bottles for later.
For a group, you can’t beat a pitcher drink or punch. They’re easy to make ahead — just hold off on any bubbles until right before serving. A keg, beer or wine would work as well and keep things simple on your end. Whenever I’m entertaining, I like to include a mocktail on the menu. You can make a big batch mocktail or scale a favorite recipe.
Don’t forget the ice! No matter what you’re serving, it tastes better cold. You can make large ice cubes to prevent drinks from diluting quickly or even fancy ice cubes, like flower or herb ice cubes, to elevate the occasion. At the very least, ask someone to pick up a bag before the party.
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Essential tools & glassware options
No need to overthink your glasses. If you’ve already unpacked and want to show off your fun new kitchenware, go for it! For wine, you may want wine glasses, and cocktails may warrant cocktail glasses. Stemless wine glasses are my go-to, as you can serve both wine and cocktails in them. Depending on the formality of your event, you can go with real glass or plastic for less clean-up (and less chance of broken glass!).
For those that would rather skip the dishes, solo cups work well! Keep a sharpie easily accessible so nobody mixes up their drinks.
If you’ll be offering mixed drinks, bar tools are a must. The basics, like a jigger or two, cocktail shaker * and some bottle openers, should cover your bases.
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Appetizers and bar snacks
Keep your snacks simple. Consider things that are easy to eat without a seat or utensils, like spinach artichoke wonton cups or pizza pinwheels. You can also do a salsa trio to add some color to the party, with a red, green and pineapple option.
It’s hard to beat cookies for dessert. No plates needed, just grab one and go! If you’re feeling more adventurous, jello shots can be prepped ahead of time and are almost guaranteed to liven things up.
Tips & safety considerations
When hosting any event, it’s important to prioritize the safety and well-being of your guests. From responsible alcohol service to thoughtful food handling and transportation planning, these tips will help ensure everyone has a fun and safe time.
- Alcohol consumption: Of course, anytime you are serving alcohol, it’s important to make sure people don’t overdo it. Pre-batch cocktails and serve in smaller glasses to help manage portions and ensure everyone enjoys responsibly.
- Transportation options: Encourage safety and suggest your guests use public transport or rideshare to and from your place. A carpool with a designated driver works too.
- Food safety: Make sure you have a way for people to serve the food without spreading germs. Make sure dips have a spoon for doling out scoops, and offer things like skewers and toothpicks for cheese and meatballs.
“Stock the Bar” party gift ideas
Whether you’re attending a “stock the bar” party or want to provide your guests with some guidance, here are some ideas:
- Spirits like tequila, vodka, rum, gin or whiskey
- Liqueurs like Irish cream, coffee liqueur or triple sec
- Mixers such as sodas, Bloody Mary mix, sour mix or margarita mix
- Bar tools like a citrus peeler, jigger, cocktail shaker * or dish towel
- Extras like bitters, simple syrup or cocktail picks
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